Build A Bridge

Once upon a time two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell
into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side
by side, sharing machinery, and trading labor and goods as needed
without a hitch. Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with
a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and
finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks
of silence. One morning there was a knock on John’s door. He opened
it to find a man with a carpenter’s toolbox. “I’m looking for a few
days work,” he said. “Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here
and there I could help with? Could I help you?”

“Yes,” said the older brother. “I do have a job for you. Look across
the creek at that farm. That’s my neighbor; in fact, it’s my younger
brother. Last week there was a meadow between us and he took his
bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us.
Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I’ll go him one better.
See that pile of lumber by the barn? I want you to build me a fence–
an 8-foot fence–so I won’t need to see his place or his face anymore.”

The carpenter said, “I think I understand the situation. Show me the
nails and the post hole digger and I’ll be able to do a job that pleases
you.”

The older brother had to go to town, so he helped the carpenter get
the materials ready and then he was off for the day. The carpenter
worked hard all that day measuring, sawing, nailing. About sunset
when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job.
Thefarmer’s eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped. There was no fence
there at all. It was a bridge–a bridge stretching from one side of the
creek to the other! A fine piece of work handrails and all–and the
neighbor, his younger brother, was coming across, his hand
outstretched.

“You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I’ve said and done.”
The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met
in the middle, taking each other’s hand. They turned to see the
carpenter hoist his toolbox on his shoulder.

“No, wait! Stay a few days. I’ve a lot of other projects for you,” said
the older brother.

“I’d love to stay on,” the carpenter said, “but I have many more
bridges to build.”

A Glass Of Milk

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay
his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he
was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house.
However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the
door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought
he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it
slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe you?” “You don’t owe
me anything,” she replied. “Mother has taught us never to accept pay
for a kindness.” He said…”Then I thank you from my heart.” As
Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but
his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give
up and quit.

Year’s later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors
were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called
in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called
in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she
came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and
went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his
doctor’s gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He
went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save
her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case. After a
long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business
office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, and
then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room.
She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her
life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her
attention on the side of the bill. She read these words… “Paid in full
with one glass of milk”

A Fascinating Story

A lady in a faded gingham dress and her husband, dressed in a
homespun threadbare suit, stepped off the train in Boston, and
walked timidly without an appointment into the president of
Harvard’s outer office. The secretary could tell in a moment
that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard
and probably didn’t even deserve to be in Cambridge.

She frowned. “We want to see the president,” the man said softly.
“He’ll be busy all day,” the secretary snapped. “We’ll wait,” the lady
replied. For hours, the secretary ignored them, hoping that the
couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They didn’t.
And the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the
president, even though it was a chore she always regretted to do.
“Maybe if they just see you for a few minutes, they’ll leave,” she
told him. And he sighed in exasperation and nodded. Someone of
his importance obviously didn’t have the time to spend with them,
but he detested gingham dresses and homespun suits cluttering up
his outer office. The president, stern-faced with dignity, strutted
toward the couple. The lady told him, “We had a son that attended
Harvard for one year. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But
about a year ago, he was accidentally killed. And my husband and
I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on campus.”

The president was not touched; he was shocked. “Madam,” he said
gruffly. “We can’t put up a statue for every person who attended
Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery”.
“Oh, no,” the lady explained quickly. “We don’t want to erect a
statue. We thought we would like to give a building to Harvard.”
The president rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and
homespun suit, and then exclaimed, “A building! Do you have any
earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and a
half million dollars in the physical plant at Harvard.” For a moment
the lady was silent. The president was pleased. He could get rid of
them now. And the lady turned to her husband and said quietly, “Is
that all it costs to start a University? Why don’t we just start our
own?” Her husband nodded. The president’s face wilted in confusion
and bewilderment. And Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford walked away,
traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the
University that bears their name, a memorial to a son that Harvard
no longer cared about.

“You can easily judge the character of others by how they treat
those who can do nothing for them or to them.”

A Brother’s Hands

Back in the fifteenth century, in a tiny village near Nuremberg, lived
a family with eighteen children. Eighteen! In order merely to keep
food on the table for this mob, the father and head of the household,
a goldsmith by profession, worked almost eighteen hours a day at his
trade and any other paying chore he could find in the neighborhood.
Despite their seemingly hopeless condition, two of the Durer’s elder
children had a dream. They both wanted to pursue their talent for
art, but they knew full well that their father would never be
financially able to send either of them to Nuremberg to study at
the Academy.

After many long discussions at night in their crowded bed, the two
boys finally worked out a pact. They would toss a coin. The loser
would go down into the nearby mines and, with his earnings, support
his brother while he attended the academy. Then, when that brother
who won the toss completed his studies, in four years, he would
support the other brother at the academy, either with sales of his
artwork or, if necessary, also by laboring in the mines. They tossed a
coin on a Sunday morning after church. Albrecht won the toss
and went off to Nuremberg.

Albert went down into the dangerous mines and, for the next four
years, financed his brother, whose work at the academy was almost
an immediate sensation. Albrecht’s etchings, his woodcuts, and
his oils were far better than those of most of his professors, and by
the time he graduated, he was beginning to earn considerable fees
for his commissioned works.

When the young artist returned to his village, the Durer family held
a festive dinner on their lawn to celebrate Albrecht’s triumphant
homecoming. After a long and memorable meal, punctuated with
music and laughter, Albrecht rose from his honored position at the
head of the table to drink a toast to his beloved brother for the years
of sacrifice that had enabled Albrecht to fulfill his ambition. His
closing words were, “And now, Albert, blessed brother of mine, now
it is your turn. Now you can go to Nuremberg to pursue your dream,
and I will support you.”

All heads turned in eager expectation to the far end of the table
where Albert sat, tears streaming down his pale face, shaking his
lowered head from side to side while he sobbed and repeated over
and over, “No … no … no … no.”

Finally, Albert rose and wiped the tears from his cheeks. He glanced
down the long table at the faces he loved, and then, holding his
hands close to his right cheek, he said softly, “No, brother. I cannot
go to Nuremberg. It is too late for me. Look, look what four years in
the mines have done to my hands! The bones in every finger have
been smashed at least once, and lately I have been suffering from
arthritis so badly in my right hand that I cannot even hold a glass to
return your toast, much less make delicate lines on parchment or
canvas with a pen or a brush. No, brother … for me it is too late.”

More than 450 years have passed. By now, Albrecht Durer’s
hundreds of masterful portraits, pen and silver-point sketches,
watercolors, charcoals, woodcuts, and copper engravings hang in
every great museum in the world, but the odds are great that you,
like most people, are familiar with only one of Albrecht Durer’s works.
More than merely being familiar with it, you very well may have a
reproduction hanging in your home or office.

One day, long ago, to pay homage to Albert for all that he had
sacrificed, Albrecht Durer painstakingly drew his brother’s abused
hands with palms together and thin fingers stretched skyward. He
called his powerful drawing simply “Hands,” but the entire world
almost immediately opened their hearts to his great masterpiece and
renamed his tribute of love “The Praying Hands.”

Abraham Lincoln’s Letter To Headmaster

A letter written by Abraham Lincoln to the Headmaster of a school in
which his son was studying. It contains an advice, which is still
relevant today for executives, workers, teachers, parents and
students.

A WORD TO TEACHERS

He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just and are not
true. But teach him if you can the wonder of books… but also give
him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky,
bees in the sun and flowers on a green hillside.

In school, teach him it is far more honorable to fall than to cheat…
Teach to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him he is
wrong.

Teach him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with the tough.
Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when
everyone getting on the bandwagon…

Teach him to listen to all men; but teach him also to filter all he
hears on a screen of truth, and take only the good that comes
through.

Teach him, if you can how to laugh when he is sad… Teach him
there is no shame in tears.

Teach him to scoff at cynics and to be aware of too much sweetness.

Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to highest bidders, but never
to put a price on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears to a
howling mob… and stand and fight if thinks he is right.

Treat him gently, but do not cuddle him, because only the test of fire
makes fine steel. Let him have the courage to be impatient. Let him
have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have sublime
faith in himself, because then he will have faith in humankind.

This is a big order, but see what you can do. He is such a fine little
fellow my son!

- Abraham Lincoln

Four Words

A king called all of his wise men and counselors together for a
meeting. He addressed them and said: “I want you to go and think,
read, and research. Consult the wisest and most learned men in the
land. Spare no expense. I want you to find the ONE statement that
will get me through all situations in life. Whether I am on top of the
world or in the pits, find that statement. I don’t want to learn long
and complicated philosophies. I want one simple statement. Find it
or write it; I don’t care, just bring me the statement.”

The men left and consulted for months. They finally returned and
handed the King a scroll. The King unrolled the scroll. On it was
written four words: “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”

That was it. The wise men explained. When you are on top of the
world, that is but a fleeting moment, things change, always
remember, this too shall pass. When you are in the pits, all nights
are followed by day, at your lowest moments remember also, this
too shall pass. All external circumstances and material things change.
No matter what your circumstances, remember, THIS TOO SHALL
PASS!

The wise men reminded the great King that this would get him
through his earthly things but the truly wise knew there were things
beyond this earth and life. Things those were eternal. True wisdom
they reminded the King was in the ability to recognize the fleeting
temporal things of the material world from the truly eternal things.
O Great King they said, “Most of the things that you worry or gloat
about are temporary and our four words apply.”

Dear Readers, for most of your situations. . . THIS TOO SHALL
PASS!

Sunrise

Every morning in Africa,
when the sun rises,
a DEER awakens,
knowing it has to outrun the fastest lion,
or,
be hunted to death…….

Every morning in Africa,
when the sun rises,
a LION awakens,
knowing it has to outrun the slowest deer,
or,
be starved to death…….

It does not matter whether you are
a DEER or LION,
when the sun rises,
better be running at your best.

YOU LIVE ONLY ONCE.

A Winner

In 1962, four nervous young musicians played their first
record audition for the executives of the Decca recording Company.
The executives were not impressed. While turning down this group of
musicians, one executive said, “We don’t like their sound. Groups of
guitars are on the way out.” The group was called The Beatles.

In 1944, Emmeline Snively, director of the Blue Book Modelling
Agency told modelling hopeful Norma Jean Baker, “You’d better learn
secretarial work or else get married.” She went on and
became Marilyn Monroe.

In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, Fired a
singer after one performance. He told him, “You ain’t goin’
nowhere….son. You ought to go back to drivin’ a truck.” He went on
to become Elvis Presley.

When Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone in 1876, it did
not ring off the hook with calls from potential backers. After making
a demonstration call, President Rutherford Hayes said, “That’s
an amazing invention, but who would ever want to see one of them?”

When Thomas Edison invented the light bulb, he tried over
2000 experiments before he got it to work. A young reporter asked
him how it felt to fail so many times. He said, “I never failed once. I
invented the light bulb. It just happened to be a 2000-step process.”

In the 1940s, another young inventor named Chester Carlson took
his idea to 20 corporations, including some of the biggest in the
country. They all turned him down. In 1947, after 7 long years of
rejections, he finally got a tiny company in Rochester, NY, the Haloid
Company, to purchase the rights to his invention — an electrostatic
paper-copying process. Haloid became Xerox Corporation.

A little girl – the 20th of 22 children, was born prematurely
and her survival was doubtful. When she was 4 years old, she
contracted double pneumonia and scarlet fever, which left her with a
paralysed left leg. At age 9, she removed the metal leg brace she had
been dependent on and began to walk without it. By 13 she had
developed a rhythmic walk, which doctors said was a miracle. That
same year she decided to become a runner. She entered a race
and came in last. For the next few years every race she entered, she
came in last. Everyone told her to quit, but she kept on running. One
day she actually won a race; and then another. From then on she
won every race she entered. Eventually this little girl – Wilma
Rudolph, went on to win three Olympic gold medals.

A school teacher scolded a boy for not paying attention to
his mathematics and for not being able to solve simple problems. She
told him that you would not become anybody in life. The boy was
Albert Einstein.

A Winner Is NOT One Who NEVER FAILS, But One
Who NEVER QUITS!

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